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Scorpio and Love

Scorpio Love

Scorpio Love Intro

Ruling the House of Sex can either be a blessing or a curse, and a lot depends on how the wily Scorpion deals with this erotic burden. Those mystical and magical creatures born under the sign of Scorpio are quick to channel their raw energy, power and strength into an exploration of their lover`s emotions and sexuality. The Scorpion is intuitive and wants to get to the bottom of things, so there`s no keeping secrets from this sexy Sign (although they`ll surely keep a few of their own). An alluring resourcefulness and self-confidence is also evident in Scorpios, these folks being keenly attuned to what`s best for them and how to get it. Anyone willing to take on the Scorpion will be engaging a cosmic power with plentiful sexual urges. The good news? A caring and devoted lover awaits. On the flip side, don`t cross them, because those stingers can leave a heck of a welt.

Scorpio and Romance

There`s a hard-to-pin-down, magnetic quality which surrounds the Scorpion, an aura which says “try me, if you dare!” That`s just what Scorpions want, someone fearless, who is willing to help create the ultimate romance, one which will take them to greater heights than ever before. When this works, the Scorpion`s passions are unleashed with hurricane force. If, however, the romance zigs, zags and bouts of jealousy may be the unwelcome result. Ruling planets Mars and Pluto might prompt Scorpio to think that romance is a clash of wills, but a clever lover is the one who can bring this warrior to see that a pincer movement to the heart is the sweetest of all.

Scorpio in Relationships

Guess who`s in charge here? You`ve got it, the strong Scorpion, who is not quite ready to be controlled by others. This can make for an interesting relationship dynamic and one very sexy chess game. What the Scorpion wants are sex, love and money from a lover, and the absolute best where all three are concerned. Deep down, though, it`s sex and the power it brings which carry the most weight with this libidinous soul. Scorpions are possessed of a steely determination and a strong sense of what is best for them. Thankfully, this often takes into account their partner, and they are quick to be giving with the right lover, and to make their life very easy. As long as the Scorpion wins, there will be harmony in the mating game. The ideal Scorpio soul mate can go twelve rounds anywhere, anytime and preferably in bed.

Scorpio in Love

The Scorpion is as clever in love as in life: Much of what`s going on is a tactical game, one they are more than likely to win. Scorpios can be very sexy when in love, and that says a lot about members of this already sexy sign. When in love, the Scorpion can be intensely passionate, a rush of fluid feelings in keeping with this Water-born sign. Often, though, there is a push-pull in the dance of love, thanks to the Scorpion`s many motivations. A lover who is willing to discover what`s really beneath the surface will serve both the Scorpion and themselves very well.

Scorpio and Sex

The Sex God of the Zodiac has quite a lot to live up to and does just that. The sexual prowess and drive of those born under this sign is legendary. Scorpions smolder with every come-hither look, alluring wink of an eye and mysterious stare. If you want to ride a tiger to an emotional and sexual crescendo, jump on the curvy back of the sleek Scorpion. Variety as the spice of life is the golden rule here, and any lover stepping into this lair best be ready, since keeping up is a must.

What Scorpio Needs

A challenge is something that makes the Scorpion swoon: The prospect of someone who can test them and who can make the game fast and fun is almost irresistible. Scorpio, of course, wants nothing but the best, so winners only need apply. Scorpions are also eager to find a strong, understanding and perceptive partner, someone who embraces the many facets of this volcanic lover. What else? Someone who won`t judge them, who possesses raw personal power themselves, who keeps the game interesting, who has a red-hot sex drive and who knows how to talk when it`s important to the relationship.

The Scorpio lover is determined, forceful, has great passion and strength and finishes what they start. This is a powerful and sexual being who isn`t for the faint-hearted.

Advice to Scorpios for Attracting the Right Person

You have a strange sexual magnetism that makes you extremely attractive to members of the opposite sex. You are an intense person, who takes his relationships seriously, and you will be unhappy with a partner who does not do the same. When your relationships are not working out properly you will be unhappy. While the emotional side to your relationships is more important to you, at times the sensuous side to your nature dominates your actions. It is important that you learn to control this side to your personality, and to use your powers more responsibly. You must also try to control your temper. While you are slow to anger, you are also slow to forgive. You can do much more harm than you realise by your outbursts of uncontrolled emotion. A great deal could be achieved if you would only forgive and forget a little more easily.


65 comments on “Scorpio and Love
  1. Loryn says:

    I have seen a lot of comments about Gemini’s and how they are shallow and take things lighty, but I actually dated a Gemini before and things were perfect. We never fought, we got along perfectly. In all honesty, he never acted like a Gemini. He was a deep lover and he stated how he felt. He acted like a scorpio now that I think about it, Except the sexual drive like us scorpios have.

  2. Brittany says:

    Omg.. so truu. I love a challenge and I cn be so angry at times buh idunno why. Gotta love scorpions right.. woop woop! 11/05

  3. Ms Vicky says:

    I LOVEV being a Scorpio. The only thing I don’t like is to take revenge. I have no control when I’m pissed. I’m working on my stinger lol!

  4. JayLynn says:

    I have a love/hated relationship with myself for being a scorpio. I love it for the most part, but I also feel outcasted from the whole love crowd who say they’re in love in less than a week and seem so happy, I feel like I can’t trust anybody. I love being a scorpio, and I’m pretty confident, but the love think can get me down.

  5. Ebonie says:

    I’m a Scorpio married 7 years to a Sagittarius, November 7 December 18. This had been the worst relationship I’ve had. It started great, when it got serious he got controlling. It’s one of those yoyo relationships, I leave or threaten to leave, he’s fine, after a couple months back to the same old. I met another Scorpio man 2 years ago, November 11. He’s perfect, sex drive, energy, ambition, love, and we actually talk to each other. I’m like why stay here? We have two Girls together, My husband and I,3 & 6. I tell myself I stay for them, he treats them so great, he’s a good father. The treo of us together just doesn’t work. The Scorpio man tells me he loved me and that i should leave my husband wet can get married, I’m scared because he still sleeps around. He says its because I’m married and once i leave my husband he’d stop. I told him if he really wanted me to leave my husband he’d stop now. Am i wrong for wanting that? I Do love him but i don’t want to up my family for more drama.
    Confused ?

  6. Qwacel says:

    His bday is Nov 7 and mind Nov 12 both age 29!!!!

  7. Qwacel says:

    What do y’all think about scorpio and scorpio relationships? I have been with my scorpio man for about 3 months now… he even moved me in his home… I’ve been living with him for two months now… everything is good between us i mean no real major problems except the fact that he likes to get on IG and FB to I guess try to converse with other females he does not know and are not even from our area…. i do not think he is cheating…well having sex with anyone else… when i caught him doing this if said it was nothing and he doesn’t know why he does it and that he loves me and I’m the one he is with 24/7 (he is a real loner so he is always home with me unless at work) so that i really don’t need to worry…. another thing is that he kinda hides his feelings about me deep down inside like he is scared to open up to me and tell me how he really feels and where our relationship is going… i have threatened to leave him because of this but he would not let me leave and keeps assuring me that in time i will understand and that i do have him now and he is not going anywhere. I just be confused because we are so much the same but he holds things in and i did at first but now i let it be known on how i feel and what i want to happen with us… i love him and he is a very good man… i just foot understand him at times i know he loves and appreciates me but i just don’t want to get fucked over in the long run…i just need a little advice because I’ve never felt so good in my life and i don’t want this to end!

    • Precious says:

      I am also in a scorpio and scorpio relationship and have been for about 7 years now. My birthday is the 11th and his is the 14th. My experience has been, I can’t find an word for it. I can say it has been very emotional. He is very emotional and loving. He has no issues telling me exactly how he feels. I on the other hand can get quiet and distant, usually when I get that way I have noticed something or unable to have my way and I’m watching. He tends to throw his self into his hobbies and work. If he is not working he is doing what he loves or he is sleeping. So I just get on board and show him my support. He stays on the phone more than me and I have noticed that he is an true friend always willing to help others. Very tight fisted when it comes to money, he is far from broke but will save $50 before he spends $50. He needs no help spending money. He spends his money on the bills his house and the biggest of it goes to what he loves the most his hobby and his son. I have learned to stay out of that there is no win. We do not stay together and thats an good thing because he would get on my nerves. He looks to be pamperd and so do I. He is good at whatever it is that he does and he knows it, that the part that gets on my nerves. I tend to back down just an little not much during an argument because we usually never agree when it comes down to it unless the issue is about something other then ourselves. It’s like we feed off each others energy and when the heat is on sparks fly oh my how the fly. Honestly tho, I think I have stayed due to the fact that I am comfortable with the way things are I don’t think that I am truely happy. I drink he don’t, I smoke he don’t, I like bikes he like cars. I like to go out he has no time or wont make time. I like and always thinking how to make more and he is doing the same. He likes going to the track and will take off after working two jobs no sleep drive 2 to 3 hours and do what he loves. He loves me and is very jealous and has no issue with letting me know this no matter how hard I try to end it he wont let me and continue to love a little harder and at times I’m glad he is still there because I love him to death. The only thing I can tell you is that I tend not to tell him how I feel either because I don’t want to hurt his feelings because there are some things about him that makes me scream and can be very stern and careless with his words at times so I let an lot of stuff go. Now I was in your shoes when I was married to an sag. He was very quiet and a loner and I was more the dominate person in the relationship and he wouldn’t talk to me much but I knew he loved me beyond words. With woman especially an scorpio woman any hint of weakness, lets just say only the strong survive.

  8. MsScorp says:

    Spot mutha-f’n on!!! Its scary just how much I relate to other scorps out there. The whole loving hard, hurting just as hard, being our own worst enemy, passion, desire to lead and empower, being loyal, expecting the same from others, seeking revenge or passionately waiting for karma to finally do its job lol, obsessing when passionate about something, the deepened thoughts, our intense aura, our philosophical minds, I literally could go on… But I swear every comment I have ever read from scorps are all about how they can relate to other scorps stories.

    Oh and gemini’s are really shallow ppl n very full of themselves but at the same time. They are very interesting ppl, and very inteligent too… But unfortunately can be lazy at getting things done. Sometimes I think the things they do, are not driven by passion but rather they do things just because. Lol but I know a lota gems love water signs(pieces, aquarius,cancer,scorpio)

    And I can relate on the libra thing. I had a libra walk in and out of my life. He was/is the love of my life and since the last “out” I have yet to find someone who makes me want to fall inlove again. Everyone just seems like a waste of my time and energy and nobody has time for that. I don’t do things half way (unless I’m forced to do it) but when I love, I love hard and who ever that man will be, he will be getting ALL of me because that’s who we are. We are the 100% starsign. We are either all in or all out. There is no if buts or maybe’s with us. Unless that’s apart of our game (which we tend to play a lot) lmao. Now ppl should leave Drake alone (he is just a scorned scorpio, I get it) lol

  9. Iwgaio juthuba says:

    I am a Scorpio lady. I love being me. When I read what others write about Scorpios it is basically the same thing we are great lovers etc but i’ve yet to read what actually drives our passionate nature or why we are percieved as jealous/posessive..if i’m exceptional in bed or anything else it is because I have fallen in love..love for me brings so much passion in every aspect of my life and the person who is on the recieving end of my grace has yet to betray or hurt me good thing because I am unforgiving I don’t intentionally hurt or betray anyone and expect this in return. If any action I display appears jealous to others don’t flatter yourself first of all, it is not jealousy. It is probably more fear, nervousness, or shame..you have to remember before I engage in any relationship I have already considered my opponent, played the game and won, you just weren’t looking,.hence Scorpio’s (alterior motives)..we are always one step ahead of the game people better step up yours :)

  10. Gina kay says:

    Im a scorpio 2 the heart everything i read about SCORPIO IS TRUE …sometimes we are our worst enemies…… but i LOVE BEING ME STRONG FEARLESS & SEXY AS HELL . Sometimes i feel like a SCORPIO IS THE ONLY SIGN THAT WE EVER GET ME.

  11. MarcoPolo says:

    Being a Scorpio can be burdensome, but I LOVE being ME and wouldn’t want to be any other. November 7th is my Birthdate and I’m a Double Scorpio! I am most of everything that I have read! Scorpio’s are “Simply the Best… Better than All the Rest”. Be true to yourself and others will follow naturally. WE ARE NATURAL BORN LEADERS… AND YES, WE REALLY DO KNOW EVERYTHING! ;-)

  12. Imroz says:

    U are doing the right thing man :) bt the thing is gemini are really the worst match for the scorpio, gemini are shallow and emotionally detached, as friends they are acceptable bt as lovers they are the WORST, I have dated about 6 different signs up till now (coincidence), and gemeni was the worst one….. Get along with ur scorpio, trust me they are as much of a passionate lover as u :) good luck

  13. NIck says:

    wow those are some screwed up Geminis…I don’t know if it’s because I have quite a bit of Taurus influence or what but I don’t act like that. I can’t pretend in a relationship. I have never cheated, never taken part in someone else cheating and I don’t tell outlandish lies either. But every relationship requires a measured amount of white lies and compromises to keep both happy. I believe in a balanced relationship and I don’t like to control or be controlled excessively. I am not a very jealous person but I appreciate my woman making it obvious that she is with me if we are around other interested guys. It makes me feel proud. If I can’t dedicate myself properly in a relationship then I don’t stay in that relationship. Also MiStevious, im sorry that ass cut off your hair. I happen to appreciate women with long hair.

    And please you guys, you can’t treat all Geminis the same. Yes I may not like to be caged and need a little extra freedom, but I put in all the necessaries for a relationship to work, if it is a good one. I am a very intuitive person and can read emotions really well and unlike the typical shallow Gemini way, I am actually pretty deep. I have just learned to control my emotions.

    I really want this relationship to work and I absolutely adore this Scorpio woman I am trying to court. If you guys want to know anything about my personality I will happily share it. I have no emotional secrets. I just don’t open my heart completely until I know that it will be safe in her hands.

  14. becca says:

    on point!

  15. MiStevious says:

    hai nick. i already have a relationship with gemini men for 2 years. he freaking me out. his jealousy was soo creepy. i am a big fan of L’Arc-en-Ciel, and he didn’t like it. he broke all my L’Arc-en-Ciel cds, he throw away my cell phone, he cut my hair offso i look like a tomboyish girl. if he didn’t like what i do, he hit me. i was so stupid back then. from that momen, i realize there’s no such thing called love in my world and i become dark scorpio. and thats the good thing right? lol

    • jovi says:

      See!!! don’t let his demented Gemini ways fuck up what you know is true. They can’t fathom it so they can’t process it… Ya`ll know exactly what I mean by that too. They can’t explain or make love logical so they strike out in an attempt to disprove it. That’s their crazy not yours and I hope you’re able to see that and heal from that soon.

    • Sai says:

      Tell me where you are and I’ll show him what a true male Scorpion can do.

      I’m very sorry about what he did to you…

    • Imroz says:

      If someone does not accept u who u are then it means he doesn’t deserve u…. scorpios like us deserve to be in a committed and loving relationship.. not the kind where our partner tries to change us, be proud of who u are, the perfect one for us is the one who is strong enough to face the challenges with us :)

  16. Nick says:

    Are there any Scorpio women who have had successful relationships with Gemini men? Can you tell me about your Scorpio/Gemini relationships, pros/cons etc?

    • jovi says:

      I recently got of a relationship with one. I though he was perfect and I would do anything for him but I found out how truly horrible they really are. He lied to me for years and completely destroyed my trust in him. They don’t understand dedicate and devotion, those are just words to them. They can never truly understand the depths we love and consider things like that a game. I wanted to spend the rest of my life with him and now I just want to keep myself from being bitter. They do have good qualities, but for friendship only, a relationship with them will likely end in us getting hurt and them moving past it 3.5 seconds after. My opinion though.

    • M says:

      I’m in a relationship with a Gemini for almost 2 years. I feel like the problems in our relationship only affect me and not him. There’s jelously and control problems on my side and he is just too flirty/ innapropriate and doesn’t seem to think when he talks. Another thing we have a problem with is him reacting appropriatly to my emotions esp. when i might be sad or upset, but that has just changed recently. We have great sex though. Our communication could use some work. Geminis are a very intersting sign. I do get along with most Geminis i meet though. The Pros are we are both intelligent and he can keep me talking and he’s very outgoing and funny so can keep me laughing. I think a Gemini can make a shy, sensitive Scorpio more outgoing and at times happy.

  17. Avatar of Quanica Baptiste says:

    I LOVE BEING A SCORPIO!!!!!!!!!!!! These things are so true about me and my boyfriend

  18. tamekia says:

    Being a Scorpio is the best shit in the World. Sex is Fiiiiiiiirrrrrreeeeee, we are smart and look good. There is no competition!! But it can also be lonely and self destructing. We have to learn how to control our emotions and jealous ways.

  19. Ajith says:

    i really feel alone in this world, nobody loves me because i m a scorpio

    • Imroz says:

      Thats because they are afraid of u, the best partner for scorpio is someone who can read minds and are up to the challenge :)

  20. Chantel says:

    Hell ya bein a Scorpio ROCKS!

  21. Natasha says:

    I love being a Scorpio, but it’s very difficult for me to find love :/

    • ekp says:

      bingo..!!

    • Rohit says:

      Being a Scorpio myself, I too have reservations due to my vulnerable emotional aspects and just aspire for my perfect soul-mate. Its better to find love in the Cancer, Pisces or Scorpio sun-sign because they are the ones with whom we Scorpios can truly relate with!!!

  22. I love being a scorpio, I wouldn’t trade it for the world. But my sensuous side does tend to get me in trouble. dead on!

  23. CDR says:

    Scorpios are most compatible with Virgos, capricorns, cancers and piesces.

  24. Scorpio-Garfield says:

    Scorpios are natural born leaders we create and we everything to the hilt !!!! We Rule.

  25. bodslady says:

    This is me so on point …one thing i can say is im learning
    How to let a man be in control alittle

  26. elanor_g says:

    I’m a Libra/Scorpio (24/10) and an ex (libra 17/10) keeps popping up in my life every couple of years then disappears again. We have this strange relationship I love him with everything I have, but I can also dislike him to the point of hatred. I’m now so confused I have no idea what to do, any advice fellow Scopios??

    • mleigh says:

      I have the same problem, but my guy is a different sign…

    • Imroz says:

      Try to understand that the guy is jst havng a relationship with u because he is turned on by u, u are one of the best sign in the world…don’t let a weak sign like libra to control ur emotion, remember scorpios are proud and amazing, be both :)

  27. I feel doomed when it comes to love. Maybe im just young..

  28. GameKash says:

    Scorpios rule baby!!!

  29. Maria says:

    All definitely true

  30. Denny says:

    Tru talk..me luv bin scorpio..test me..pleeez.

  31. Ronika says:

    Very True!!..

  32. Aezy says:

    yeah its sex money n love.

  33. Venessa84 says:

    Scorpio STING that aaaassss!!! Up you Scorpio, up you. Jou lekker ding. I am a proud Scorpio, 30 Oct.

  34. Bonita says:

    @DimeDiva_b

    I Love Being A Scorpio!!!! Where Just Sexy!!!! Men & Women

  35. ameperdue says:

    i’m proud being a Scorpio…i have a relationship with a CANCER and we both believe that we are perfect together and we really love each other, but we have to part ways coz unfortunately we are both married when we found each other…SO SAD!

    • Jenn says:

      Yes, but are you actually happier with your spouses? If you’re happier with the Cancer, drop the wife and be with who truly makes you happy.

  36. Sean says:

    I love being a scorpio because of the passion and intensity I feel with dealing life…but sometimes it sucks to feel so much emotions to the point where it hurts and wish you can remove it from your soul.

  37. Vanessa says:

    I love being a Scorpio. But I hate feeling so much, no one understand nor appreciates the depth of my thoughts. I recently had a break up with an Aries, it was the most intense and explosive relationship I’ve ever had Ive never loved/hated someone so much in my life. And now I have to get back in the game but it’s always so hard for me to want to be with anyone for reasons other than sex.

    • Imroz says:

      I know how u feel, i had an aries girlfriend who was like the best….now i hate her and search every opportunity to take revenge…. damn i rilli loved her alot, now i m jst fooling around with girls for fun..:/

  38. Melissa says:

    I LOVE being a scorpio I believe this is the MOST IMPORTANT sign out of all. Scorpio’s are so smart and very wise.. They stand for no BS and most are very attractive. We take pride in everything we do and do it with ease! I LOVE MYSELF! 11/16/88 KNO THAT!

  39. Yolanda says:

    Teach me how to love..okay I will!!

  40. Kariii says:

    wow this is crazy, the last part was right on point. I have to learn how to control my bursts of anger on this one guy. Crazyy. I lovee Being a Scorpio, I have so much to learn about myself though. :)

  41. Iyelle says:

    Scorpio’s rule, but this is so true, b/c I love to be in control of everything and I have to learn that males want to feel as if they are in somewhat control….

  42. Qadesh says:

    wow!!!!! right on the money true

  43. courtney hoover says:

    I love being a Scorpio everything I have read was me 100%

  44. Olivia Stewart says:

    I LUV BEING A SCORPIO WE’RE THE BEST!!!

  45. Shon Collins says:

    Sooooooo Proud to be a Scorpio….

  46. Proud to be a scorpio! I so much love my sign! =P

  47. Lera2Mashaba says:

    I Love my Starsign and I’d Love 2 no more!!

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